Question by Neria: 22 almost 23 never had a girlfriend. Is it to late?.?
I’m 22 years old soon to be 23 by summer and I have have never had a girlfriend in my lifetime not once. I have never kissed or had sex either the most I have ever done is hug but that’s it. I have met two women from an online dating site but to be honest that’s not a true date in my opinion.
I have asked out many women since the age of 12 and I get he same answers either they aren’t interested in me, they have a boyfriend or they have a child.
I’m a very outgoing person and not shy and I’m always talking with people and I have no problem approaching anyone. I’m involved with a few small groups through church and other activities in my community and that’s great in all but still don’t meet anyone. I have many friends including female friends and they all say I’m a great guy.
Also IM overweight but not seriously I have made efforts to lose weight and its happening slowly, I also I’m not a jeans and T-shirt kind of guy I always take effort into taking care of myself and dressing up nice where ever I may go. My life is coming together day by day and doing the things I need to do and working towards my future by setting goals and working towards my dreams. I don’t party either I don’t do drugs or drink. I have had many chances to have sex but I turned them all down.
I feel like I have done everything I possibly could do but I feel like it was not meant to happen and it bothers me to see everybody else in my age group meet someone and get married to them like its nothing.
Would it be embarrassing to tell a girl that I have never had a girlfriend at my age before and I’m still a virgin? Could one be successful starting a relationship this late in life? Is it to late? what could I do be doing wrong?.
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Answer by BARBIEDOLL.
It’s never too late. Sounds like the right person just hasn’t come along yet.
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its ok…. but not for too much longer
go out with friends and meet girls through them
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if you are not meeting people thru your day-day activities etc online dating would be fine as everyone is pretty much looking for the same thing.
Firstly don’t pressure yourself…so what others are in relationships it’s about YOU.
Also you are the same age as me and I wouldn’t be put off if someone said they were a virgin…though honestly the no relationship thing would get me wondering why
But if you stay true to yourself and just be honest whoever you find will appreciate that =)
Relax! I was in your (almost exact) situation. I was 23 when things started happening for me and almost as soon as they started they stopped. So I spent the next couple of years working for ME. I did all kinds of things that made me happy and got my life pointed in the direction I wanted. It sounds like you are on the right track of doing that already.
I started dating my husband when I was 28 and got married at 30. He had dated very little and had only slept with one person. I was thrilled that he didn’t have a sordid past so don’t be embarrassed to be honest with a woman when you meet someone special.
I wound up with a nearly perfect prince because I didn’t compromise what I wanted and you shouldn’t either. Keep yourself open to opportunities and it will come to you.
Good luck!
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its not too late. my son was 25 when he had his first date. he got married last year at 30 and is very happy.
he found the telling the girl thing embarressing at first but they mostly liked it.
good luck
It would be embarrassing to tell a girl you have never had a girlfriend, I would not date a guy that is inexperience and i would start to question what is the reason that prevented you from having a girlfriend. Do not tell the girls you are interested in that you have never had a girlfriend, they will think you are weird or something. (Don’t go around telling everybody that you are a virgin, even though it may sounds good, its a turn off). When you have found a girlfriend, then you can tell her and see how it goes from there.
It is never too late to start and develop a successful relationship at this stage in your life. You are at the ideal age, just go to places that you have never thought of before for example, the park, at movies, clubs etc. Step out of your comfort zone. Do not approach these places with the notion of seeking out a girlfriend there and now, develop a friendship first but in a manner where there is a possibility it can develop into more than a friendship. Leave room for that.
If what you have been doing is not working, try doing the opposite but know how far you are willing to go differently.
Ask your close girl friends what you can do differently to attract an ideal partner? ask them why they would not be more than friends with you and try to change the negatives they suggest you are doing wrong.
I am in the exact same postition however i am the exact opposite of you.
You say you are outgoing, not shy and have no problem approaching women. That is the main thing that will prove successful for you in the end.
Never take that gift for granted.
Imagine someone who cant go out a lot, with shyness that cripples them and does not have the confidence in them to approach people. Thats me.
You have many friends so a busy social life i presume. Take comfort in the fact that people like you, imagine not having any friends at all.
You have been offered chances in the past but turned them down, i presume you didnt like them or dont believe in having sex before your going out with someone. I have never had any chance like that, if i did i would soon snatch it up.
The only thing that is stoping you is your technique with women. I dont personally believe any of it but you could learn some material by so called PUAs (Pick-Up Artists) (Mystery, Style, David DeAngelo etc).
Its only too late for people like me, you have everything you could possibly need.
I wouldnt mention being a virgin and never having any previous relationships until you have been going out with them for a while.
As you can see from the answer above, at this age now it scares women off as they question why you have never had one before.
Pray for your brothers like me that have a struggle far greater than yours.
Good luck
I am 21, still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, I feel you.